Those first few weeks with your newborn? They’re a blur of feeds, nappy changes and wondering if you’ll ever sleep again. But tucked inside all of that chaos are the most beautiful moments — tiny fingers curling around yours, that milk-drunk face after a big feed, the way they tuck their legs up like they’re still in the womb.
The thing is, you won’t remember the details as well as you think you will. Not the way their skin felt, not how impossibly small their toes were, not the exact face they pulled mid-yawn. Those details fade faster than you’d expect.
That’s why the best time for newborn photos is within the first two weeks — while they’re still curly and sleepy and willing to be gently posed without putting up a fight about it.
But finding the right photographer when you’re running on two hours of sleep and haven’t showered since Tuesday? That feels like a lot. So here’s what actually matters: you want someone who genuinely knows what they’re doing with newborns. Someone who understands how to keep your baby safe, comfortable and settled — and who won’t rush you through it.
It’s not just about getting nice photos. It’s about the experience feeling calm and easy, so you can actually enjoy it. And then walking away with images that take you right back to this moment, years from now, when your tiny baby is arguing with you about screen time.
What is a lifestyle newborn session?
A lifestyle session is less about posed setups and more about capturing your family as you actually are — at home, in your own space, doing the real stuff. Feeding on the couch. Dad having a cuddle in the rocking chair. Your toddler meeting the baby for the fifteenth time and still being fascinated.
It’s relaxed, it’s natural, and it tends to produce the images that make you the most emotional ten years down the track — because they look like your actual life, not a photoshoot.
How to get ready for a session at home
You don’t need a show home. Honestly, a bit of lived-in warmth is what makes these sessions work. Just clear the obvious clutter — the pile of washing on the couch, the Amazon boxes in the hallway — and let the rest be. That stack of nappies on the change table? That’s real life. It stays.
For clothes, keep it simple. Soft colours, nothing too busy or matchy-matchy. Think comfort — you’ll be cuddling, feeding and moving around, so wear something you actually feel good in, not something you’re tugging at the whole time.
The most important thing? Just be yourselves. The best photos come when you forget the camera is there.
When should you book your newborn photos?
The sweet spot for a newborn session is between 6 and 14 days old. At this age, your baby is still beautifully sleepy and happy to be curled and positioned into those gorgeous poses without too much protest. Once they hit about three weeks, they start to become more alert and wiggly — which is lovely, but makes for a very different session.
The best time to book? While you’re still pregnant — ideally in your second or third trimester. We’ll pencil in a tentative date based on your due date, and then adjust once bubs actually arrives (because babies famously don’t care about schedules). That way it’s sorted before the sleep deprivation kicks in and you can’t remember what day it is, let alone book a photographer.
One less thing on the list. You’re welcome.
What to wear to your newborn session
Keep it simple. You want to look back at these photos in twenty years and notice your baby’s face, not a loud print that’s distracting from everything else in the frame.
For mums and dads, soft neutrals and muted tones work beautifully — think whites, creams, soft greys, dusty pinks, olive greens. Nothing too bright or busy. And wear something you’re comfortable in — you’ll be holding, cuddling and leaning in a lot, so tight jeans and a stiff collar aren’t your friend here.
For bub, less is more. A simple wrap, a plain onesie, or sometimes just a nappy is all you need. The focus is on them — their tiny features, their skin, those little hands and feet. They don’t need a outfit to steal the show.
The general rule: the simpler the clothes, the more timeless the photos.
Why work with a specialist newborn photographer?
There’s a big difference between someone who takes photos and someone who knows how to work with a days-old baby. Newborns need a photographer who understands how to keep them safe, settled and comfortable — someone who can read their cues, knows when to pause for a feed or a nappy change, and doesn’t rush the process.
Good lighting, gentle posing and patience aren’t things you can fake. They come from experience.
Our approach
I’ve been photographing newborns for over twenty years, and my approach is pretty simple — let your baby lead. We work around their sleep and feed schedule, not the other way around. When they’re settled and sleepy, that’s when we capture the beautiful stuff. When they need a break, we take one. No stress, no rushing.
The result? Relaxed baby, relaxed parents, and images that actually look peaceful because they were.
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What families say about working with us
I won’t tell you how great I am — I’ll let the families who’ve been through it do that instead.
The thing I hear most often is that people felt relaxed. That it didn’t feel like a photoshoot. That their baby settled quickly and they actually enjoyed the experience rather than just surviving it. A few parents have even managed a sneaky nap on the couch while I worked — which I take as the ultimate compliment.
Ready to book?
If you’re pregnant or have a newborn who’s still in that gorgeous sleepy stage, now’s the time. Get in touch for a chat — no pressure, no obligation, just a conversation about what you’d love and how it all works. I’d love to meet your little one.